I’ve had a series going here about TCKs – but what is a TCK and what does some of the research say about them?
“A third culture kid is a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside their parents’ culture. The third culture kid builds relationships to all the cultures, while not having full ownership in any. Although elements from each culture are assimilated into the third culture kid’s life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of the same background, other TCKs.”
What is the Origin of term “Third Culture Kid”?
Sociologist Ruth Hill Useem coined the term “Third Culture Kids” after spending a year on two separate occasions in India with her three children, in the early fifties. Initially they used the term “third culture” to refer to the process of learning how to relate to another culture; in time they started to refer to children who accompany their parents into a different culture as “Third Culture Kids.” Useem used the term “Third Culture Kids” because TCKs integrate aspects of their birth culture (the first culture) and the new culture (the second culture), creating a unique “third culture”
What are the Characteristics of TCKs?
There are different characteristics that impact the typical Third Culture Kid:
- TCKs are 4 times as likely as non-TCKs to earn a bachelor’s degree (81% vs 21%)
- 40% earn an advanced degree (as compared to 5% of the non-TCK population.)
- 45% of TCKs attended 3 universities before earning a degree.
- 44% earned undergraduate degree after the age of 22.
- Educators, medicine, professional positions, and self employment are the most common professions for TCKs.
- TCKs are unlikely to work for big business, government, or follow their parents’ career choices. “One won’t find many TCKs in large corporations.
- 90% feel “out of sync” with their peers.
- 90% report feeling as if they understand other cultures/peoples better than the average American.
- 80% believe they can get along with anybody.
- Divorce rates among TCKs are lower than the general population, but they marry older (25+).
- Military brats, however, tend to marry earlier.
- Linguistically adept (not as true for military TCKs.)
- A study whose subjects were all “career military brats”—those who had a parent in the military from birth through high school—shows that brats are linguistically adept.
- Teenage TCKs are more mature than non-TCKs, but ironically take longer to “grow up” in their 20s.
- More welcoming of others into their community.
- Lack a sense of “where home is” but often nationalistic.
- Some studies show a desire to “settle down” others a “restlessness to move”.
- Depression and suicide are more prominent among TCK’s.

How interesting.
Based on your observation and experience, why would TCK’s be more prone to suicide and depression? Is there any research into how the career choice of the TCKs’ parents might affect that statistic?
That’s a great question, I’m not sure why that is. Just about every TCK I know personally are amazing people with a better grasp on things than their non-TCK counterparts. However, the TCK’s I know are a subset of the entire “TCK” demographic.
I suspect that TCK’s who have a real, personal relationship with Jesus Christ do a bit better on this particular issue.
It’s a good thing to look into though…
On the topic of TCKs and depression, this will probably be of interest:
TCK research
http://tckworld.com/useem
How can TCKs deal with Depression
http://www.tckid.com/group/how-can-tcks-deal-with-depression/
Hello Steve,
I’m a fellow TCK, an artist, a committed Orthodox Christian, and I have struggled with depression almost all of my life. I recently discovered the concept of “tck” and it was an unbelievable relief to find out that : I’m normal! LOL.
I realize this is an old post of yours but I stumbled on it and wanted to respond:
I’m not sure that Christian TCK’s are any better at hanndling depression and thoughts of suicide. As a matter of fact, it would make sense to me if they were only MORE prone to these issues simply because: if you are a Christian, you are automatically, by default, an especially prime target for the evil one. (Frankly, I feel that some thoughts may not be our own, and many may be at least in part, inspired by Satan and his demons and our Lord said “he was a murderer from the beginning.)
Since I returned to the States as a young adult, I have had nothing BUT challenges in terms of “re-entry”. I don’t think I will ever truly “re-enter” or “reintegrate”. I face many challenges, not the least of which is severe isolation in terms of social interaction, inability to “fit in”, inability to commit to jobs/careers (not to mention problems with commitment in personal relationships!) and I seem to be very handicapped by a marked “different-ness”. I suspect I would not face so many challenges in a more cosmopolitan setting, but I live in Reno, Nevada, a very provincial and unbelievably “narrow” society. I have blogged a lot on the issues I have faced and on my international/inter-cultural experiences , without realizing that they are in direct relation to being a TCK. I’m now 43 years old and for years I just thought if people didn’t flour in the freezer (wink!) then, they just didn’t know any better. I also never realized there was a name for my “condition” and was in and out of therapy with people who had no clue as to what I was talking about. I was beginning to think I was just “dysfunctional” and crazy for not being able to relate to the local society, or local environment!
For those who might be interested, my blog is linked here as part of my comment where the form asks for “website”.
And here: http://makinsense.wordpress.com
In any case, I am delighted to “meet you” however accidentally, and just want to say: God bless you!
In Christ,
Suzanne
PS – hope you don’t mind but I am putting you on my blogroll…you have a great blog!