As anyone with kids can tell you, raising children is one of the greatest responsibilities and privileges that you can undertake. Raising kids while living (primarily) overseas has additional challenges. There is even a name for kids who grow up overseas - “Third Culture Kids.”
Third Culture Kids (TCKs) are children who grow up in a culture other than their parents’. Their “home” culture is the first culture; their “host” culture, the second. And they live in the middle, the “third” culture. They face unique struggles in their lives of transition.
Here are 15 ideas from the web on how you can be meaningfully involved in the life of a TCK:
- Begin a relationship with one—or with a whole family of TCKs. Commit to keeping in touch with them. Many people are in TCK’s lives for only a short time. The long-term people are few and greatly appreciated. Be one of those long-term people.
- Seek them out when they are “home” visiting your country. Make it a priority to spend time with them when they come back.
- Learn their names. This may seem small, but many people only know their parents’ names; it is significant to them when people remember their names as well.
- Listen to them. Ask meaningful questions about their lives.
- Introduce your kids to them. Encourage them to exchange pictures with each other and send cards and emails to each other when they are apart.
- Go visit them in their country!
- Invite a college-age TCK whose parents are overseas to live with you.
- Invite TCKs who are in your area without their parents to come over for holidays and school breaks. They may need an adopted family. Communicate with their parents and encourage them in their relationship with their parents.
- Learn about what it’s like to grow up as a TCK. Visit websites with TCK resources (google it!)
- Pray for the TCKs when you pray for their parents. Pray Scripture for the children.
- Encourage families as they make decisions for educating their children overseas. Many families choose to use local schools so their child can be a part of the culture. Be encouraging and pray that their children will shine for Jesus in their schools. Some find that boarding school is the best option for their children. Other families desire to homeschool their children. Consider sharing your resources with them or visiting a homeschooling fair on their behalf.
- Consider giving them your frequent flyer miles to help with transportation to and from their two countries.
- Send quality paperback books to TCKs overseas. Books can be like best friends and will be re-read and shared with others.
- Don’t be surprised if TCKs do not seem to appreciate your culture like you do. TCKs often feel overwhelmed by all the excesses in American culture. For example, they may feel surprised by the size of grocery stores, how often people eat out, the high cost of entertainment and how often people “splurge,” the lack of modest clothing even in the church, the sensuality in TV shows and movies, and how much people eat in one sitting.
- Get advice right from the source—ask TCKs what makes them feel loved and supported.
Many of these don’t yet apply to Elizabeth, Annna, and Nate, but some of them do. As we have just left America and returned overseas, I wonder which family members and friends will be the ones to intentionally invest in the lives of our TCK’s?

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